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Sibling "Get Along" Kit

Finally enjoy your kids in the same room — not just one-on-one.

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$81 value — yours for $27 • 30-day money-back guarantee

Mom and daughter sharing a calm, connected moment
Sibling Get Along Kit

Your kids fight. You referee. Repeat.
This kit breaks the cycle.

22 printable tools built on the YOU-CUE framework — the same approach behind the #1 Amazon bestselling book Calm the Chaos and used by 100,000+ families.

Print one page tonight. Try one tool. See what shifts.

This works even if:

  • You've purchased class after class and kit after kit and never finished them
  • Your kids have ADHD, autism, sensory challenges, or are on completely opposite ends of the spectrum
  • You've tried everything and can't believe anything can actually help after all this time
Get the Kit — $27

30-day money back. You keep everything either way.

"I've been dealing with sibling fighting for so long that I actually cried in front of my kids and told them I couldn't take it anymore."

If that's you — keep reading.

You can't leave the room for five minutes. The second you step away, they're screaming or getting physical.

The only time you can actually enjoy your children is one-on-one.

It starts the same way every time:

  • "DON'T TOUCH MY STUFF"
  • "MOM! HE HIT ME!"
  • "I HATE YOU!"

One child is constantly asking "will you be my best friend?" The other says "only if you are always nice to me." He sings a song with everyone's name in it — except hers.

You've tried everything. Consequences. Rewards. Pinterest. The get-along jar.

None of it works.

The kids continue to:

  • Put each other down — name-calling, deliberate exclusion
  • Get physical — blocking, tripping, hitting, throwing things
  • Boss their sibling around — or completely shut them out

You think it's your fault. It's not.

You just haven't had the right tools yet.

Siblings hugging at desk

It doesn't have to stay this way.

This is for you if…

Your kids go from playing together to screaming and hitting in seconds — with no warning
One child craves connection while the other pushes them away
The fighting has gone beyond bickering into real aggression
You're so exhausted you're not sure you can implement one more thing
Their needs are on completely opposite ends of the spectrum
Dayna Abraham

I'm Dayna. Mom of three. National Board Certified Educator who could manage 30 kids in a classroom — but couldn't get her own two to stop screaming at each other.

I sat on the bathroom floor and cried because I had no idea what to say mid-meltdown. I'd read the books. Done the Pinterest things. None of it worked.

Then I figured out what was underneath the fighting. Behavior is communication. That realization became the YOU-CUE framework, a #1 Amazon bestselling book, and a community of 100,000+ families — including families with ADHD, autism, anxiety, and sensory challenges.

This kit is the best of that framework. Simple printable tools. Ready tonight.

How It Works

1

Print the Sibling Problem-Solving Checklist

One page. 9 things to check before words: food, sleep, movement, break, connection, huddle. Stick it on the fridge. Takes 30 seconds to run.

2

Try one tool at the next fight

Tonight. Not all 22. Just one.

3

Watch the shift

Most parents see a change within 48 hours. Then explore the rest at your own pace.

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Why this works when other things haven't

Most parenting tools are reactive — you wait until your kids explode, then scramble. This kit gets ahead of the fights using the YOU-CUE framework.

And because it was built for parents who've already tried posters, breathwork, journals, meditation, SEL content, and watched none of it change a thing in the moment, the first thing you'll grab is a one-page Problem-Solving Checklist. Not a 12-module course.

Brother and sister jumping on couch together

What's Inside the Kit

Pack 1: Treat Each Other Kindly $27 value

6 tools that rewire the sibling relationship

Printable worksheets from the Treat Each Other Kindly pack
  • My Sibling's Superpowers — From saying snide things to appreciating what makes their sibling different
  • Play Time Likes & Dislikes — Stop fights before they start — even when one kid needs alone time and the other hates being alone
  • 30 Conversation Starters — Gets your kids giggling. Perfect for car rides. Ages 4 through teen.
  • 100 Kind Words — Rewires the default from insults to appreciation
  • 25 Sibling Greetings — Replaces the morning scowl with high-fives and jokes
  • Guide to Big Emotions — Why they fight over NOTHING — and what's underneath

Pack 2: Play Together Nicely $27 value

8 activities that get them choosing to play together

Printable activities from the Play Together Nicely pack
  • I Like / You Like / We Like — Play Monopoly without tears or the board thrown across the room
  • Connection Cube — Put it on the table and walk away. They'll play together without realizing it's your master plan.
  • Sibling Love Notes — Turn "I hate you" into something you'd frame. Just print.
  • Positive Moments Tracker — Fills their brains with good sibling memories
  • 30 Movement Breaks — For the hyperactive kiddo who gets bored and starts poking
  • 70 Play Ideas — Active + quiet. For the "I'm bored" moments that turn into fights.
  • Connection Plan — Turns enemies into allies
  • 10 Cooperation Games — They think they're playing. They're learning.

Pack 3: Argument Problem Solver Bundle $27 value

What to do before, during, and after the fight

Printable tools from the Argument Problem Solver pack
  • Diffuse Arguments Guide — Before / During / After for parents
  • Problem-Solving Checklist — Food? Sleep? Movement? Break? Connection? Huddle?
  • Role Playing Cards — Exact scripts for common fights. Practice before the next one.
  • Conflict Resolution Spinner — Walk away, breathe, "I feel" message, talk it out
  • Safe Place Guide — Their own calm-down space. Tips + supply list.
BONUS

3 Wall Posters

3 wall posters — Diffuse Arguments, Play Nicely, Talk So Siblings Listen
  • How to Diffuse Arguments
  • How to Get Kids to Play Nicely
  • How to Talk So Siblings Will Listen
Sisters playing together Siblings talking at dinner Brother and sister hugging

This is what's on the other side of $27.

Real Families. Real Results.

Jess Flynn testimonial Katrina Teeter testimonial My kids are getting along so well tonight The kids were laughing and having fun Playing together is a beautiful win Big brother is taking over a bedtime story

One therapy session for sibling fighting: $175.

This kit: $27

Total value: $81. Your price: $27. You keep everything — even if you ask for a refund.

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If the fighting continues for another 6 months — what does that cost?

Not in dollars. In connection. In memories. In how your kids feel about each other when they're 25.

You've already tried waiting.

Older sibling holding baby

The Calm Sibling Guarantee

See even a small shift in 30 days — or get every penny back. No questions. No hoops.

You keep the entire kit either way.

Questions

My kids have ADHD, autism, or sensory challenges. Will this work?

I built this kit BECAUSE of kids like yours. My own three kids are neurodivergent — every "get along" resource I found assumed neurotypical siblings having polite disagreements. That wasn't our reality. The YOU-CUE framework was developed with families across the spectrum — ADHD, autism, SPD, ODD, anxiety, and siblings whose brains work in completely different ways.

I've bought programs before and never finished them. What's different?

Start with the Problem-Solving Checklist. ONE page. 9 boxes. Run it before words at the next fight. That's it.

You're not bad at follow-through. You're exhausted. There's a difference.

I'm too drained to implement one more thing.

If you can print one page and stick it on the fridge, you can do this. The Problem-Solving Checklist takes 30 seconds to run. 9 quick checks before you try to solve anything with words. No videos. No course to study.

I designed this for parents who have neither time nor energy.

Is $27 worth it? I can find free advice online.

If piecing together blog posts and Instagram reels has solved your sibling fighting, you don't need this. But if you've been Googling for months and your kids are still at each other's throats — you don't need more information. You need a system.

One therapy session: $175. This kit: $27. You keep it forever.

My kids are tweens/teens.

Several tools work straight through the teen years. The "How to Talk So Siblings Will Listen" poster has scripts in actual older-kid voice. "You're not the boss of me!" becomes "I want to help make a decision." "MOMMMM!!!!" becomes "Let's figure this out by ourselves." No cartoons. The 30 Super Fun Sibling Conversation Starters were built for ages 4 through teen ("What do you think about swearing?", "Do you want to have kids when you grow up?", "What 3 words could you use to describe yourself?"). Sibling conflict doesn't end at 12.

My partner isn't on board.

In almost every family where ONE parent started using these tools, the other followed. You don't need permission. You need one page and one tool. Start with you.

What if it doesn't work?

Every penny back. 30 days. No questions. You keep everything.

The real risk isn't $27. It's another 6 months of the same cycle.

I feel like I should figure this out on my own.

You weren't taught this. None of us were. You're the first generation trying to break the cycle without tools. That's not failure — it's an impossible ask. This kit is how you get the tools.

Kids playing peacefully while parent relaxes

Imagine hearing quiet from the next room.
Not suspicious quiet. Good quiet.

Get the Kit — $27

The Calm Sibling Guarantee: See a shift or pay nothing.