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Episode 56

Understanding and Managing Big Behaviors with Krysten Taprell

July 23, 2024 32 min
Calm the Chaos Parenting Podcast
Calm the Chaos Parenting Understanding and Managing Big Behaviors with Krysten Taprell
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Are you struggling to understand why your child exhibits big behaviors like yelling, hitting, or biting? In this episode, we uncover the reasons behind these actions and provide practical strategies to help you navigate them.

In this insightful episode, Dayna Abraham sits down with Krysten Taprell, a psychologist with over 20 years of experience and author of "Guidance from the Therapist Parent." Together, they discuss the normalcy of big behaviors in children, what these behaviors communicate, and how parents can better manage their own reactions to support their children effectively. This episode is packed with practical tools and strategies to help parents navigate challenging behaviors with understanding and compassion.

"When we recognize that big behaviors are a form of communication, we can better support our children through their most challenging moments." - Krysten Taprell

In This Episode

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Understanding Big Behaviors

Big behaviors like yelling, hitting, and biting are normal and communicate a child's inability to cope with overwhelming situations.

2:00
Krysten's Background

Krysten shares her journey as a psychologist and the inspiration behind her book.

4:00
Misconceptions About Big Behaviors

Addressing common misconceptions and helping parents understand the root causes of challenging behaviors.

6:00
Managing Parental Triggers

Importance of parents managing their own reactions and triggers to help their children effectively.

9:00
Tools for Staying Calm

Practical tools for parents to remain calm, including breathing techniques and self-reflection.

11:00
Building Connection

Strategies for building a strong connection with children, even after challenging behaviors.

16:00
Handling Behaviors in the Moment

Tips for managing big behaviors in real-time and the importance of taking breaks.

18:00
Setting Boundaries

How to set and enforce boundaries while maintaining a compassionate approach.

20:00
Practical Tools from the Book

Exercises and tools from Krysten's book to help children manage anxiety and big emotions.

22:00
Final Advice

Krysten's message to parents: your child is doing the best they can, and so are you.

About the Guest

Krysten Taprell

psychologist with over 20 years of experience and author of "Guidance from the Therapist Parent." Together, they discuss the normalcy of big behaviors in children, what these behaviors communicate, and how parents can better manage their own reactions to support their children effectively

Resources Mentioned

  • Guidance from the Therapist Parent — Discover practical tools and strategies from Krysten Taprell's book to help navigate big behaviors in children.
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