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Episode 7

How to Prevent Challenging Behaviors Before They Even Appear

May 30, 2023 45 min
Calm the Chaos Parenting Podcast
Calm the Chaos Parenting How to Prevent Challenging Behaviors Before They Even Appear
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Imagine a world where parenting isn't like playing an endless game of Whack-a-Mole, where you're not constantly bouncing from one struggle to the next. Sounds too good to be true? Well, this week, we're here to tell you it's actually possible.

In this episode, we're diving into the Ahead of the Moment stage of the Family Road Map. It's all about leaving reactive parenting behind and stepping into the realm of proactive strategies and empowerment.

The point is to shift our perspective and become true collaborators and partners with our children. Throughout the earlier stages, we've learned the importance of staying calm, shifting our mindset, saving our energy, and weathering storms together.

But now, it's time to level up!

In this stage, we're done with constantly extinguishing fires and arguing about shoes, electronics, and bike rides. It's time to get strategic. We're becoming problem-solving sidekicks, guides, and mentors instead of mere disciplinarians.

Because here's the thing: in this stage, we're not just parenting — we're empowering, guiding, and nurturing our kids' growth.

The real beauty of this stage lies in equipping children with the skills to navigate life, communicate effectively, and advocate for themselves.

It's a game-changer, really. They learn to understand their own needs and find constructive ways to express them, how to problem solve, be compassionate, and truly listen to others.

So tune in, and let’s prevent challenging behaviors before they even appear. Get ready to be ahead of the moment!

In This Episode

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Intro
0:57
Dayna caused a ruckus on her Facebook page
7:12
Today’s topic: Getting ahead of challenging behaviors
10:42
The big D word - discipline
12:36
How to approach a bad situation in a leadership way
16:40
Bedtime routine challenges
21:05
The 4-step ahead-of-the-moment plan
22:04
You
24:48
Connect
30:12
Understand
34:29
Empower
41:43
Recap

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