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Episode 52

When Inner Work Doesn't Work: Am I the Problem?

June 4, 2024 26 min
Calm the Chaos Parenting Podcast
Calm the Chaos Parenting When Inner Work Doesn't Work: Am I the Problem?
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Episode #52: Do you ever feel like you are the problem in your parenting journey? You are not alone! 

Christine Nieves, a dedicated mother and Calm the Chaos member, shares her heartfelt story of moving from self-judgment and hopelessness to finding calm and connection with her children. Christine's journey offers valuable insights for parents struggling with similar feelings of overwhelm and frustration, showing that change is possible through small, actionable steps and a supportive community.

In This Episode

1:00
Introduction

Meet Christine, a mother of three with another on the way, and learn about her initial struggles with self-judgment and overwhelm.

2:00
The Struggle with Self-Judgment

Christine opens up about feeling like the problem in her parenting and considering drastic measures.

4:00
The Missing Link in Self-Care

Despite extensive self-care efforts, Christine discusses the gap in applying these practices to everyday parenting.

6:00
Discovering Calm the Chaos

How Christine found the program and began to see significant changes in her reactions and mindset.

8:00
The Importance of Tiny Steps

Breaking down self-care into manageable, daily actions that create lasting change.

10:00
Shifting Mindsets

Identifying and changing the thoughts that trigger negative reactions.

12:00
True Connection

Moving beyond superficial connections to truly engage and connect with children.

14:00
Implementing the Calm the Chaos Framework

Christine’s practical application of the framework to her daily life.

17:00
Self-Awareness and Self-Compassion

Learning to recognize and address personal needs and triggers.

19:00
Practical Advice for Parents

Christine’s advice for parents feeling overwhelmed and hopeless.

Resources Mentioned

  • Get your copy of "Calm The Chaos Book": calmthechaosbook.com
  • Hear the Success Stories: calmthechaosworkshop.com/stories
  • Check out my website: lemonlimeadventures.com
  • Check out my Social:
  • YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CalmTheChaosParenting
  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/calmthechaosparenting/
  • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/calmthechaosparenting

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